Monday, November 9, 2009

MY LIFE IN AUSTRALIA...

In my life, I had to spend some period 0f my life in AUSTRALIA. Australia was a place of pride, grandeur and charisma. I was really excited to go their. I felt it would be better if I settled in Australia and waved my hand and said goodbye to INDIA.

I got myself placed in University of Sydney, and did my P.G there. People who are interested to know about Sydney just click on

After going to Australia, I really understood what was the meaning of home sickness. Really It was a pain leaving our well-wishers and was a tear-jerking experience for me. Everyone their expelling some people, mostly all others were really selfish and had no care for others. I had some friends in Australia whom I really liked the most. Suresh, a real friend of mine and he was also from the same consultancy from where I applied for Australian education. He was of good help for me and was a true friend of mine. Next to him Connie, a cute Chineese girl.She was my team mate when we were doing projects. She had a pure eyes which spoke about her character and her innocent face. So cool and was very extrovert. Then came Naresh. He was also a cool chap from Chennai. He was also good friend of mine. All others were very selfish and I had a boring experience there.

Some girls from local kanamma pettai use to come to Australia for doing their higher education and It would be really comical to see their change. During their first week they behave as if they are very innocent. By second week they start to wear vulgar dress and by third week they would got an affair and would roam around with them. Then their selfish attitude play a vital part for their survival in Australia. Why I say this because, most girls who try to woo boys and make an affair just for their safety and security. But at once when they get set with that culture, they throw their boyfriend by finding mistakes on them. They make boys as their prey.
I am not prejudice with girls or women community because If i am in this world, Its because of my mom, who is a woman and many girls like my sister etc have played a vital role in my life but some facts cannot be untold and it would be injustice if i don't say this facts. Problem is that we are following our culture and tradition due to force and not due to choice.

Another thing which I didn't like in Australia is that city is lacking when it comes to mode of transportation. There are many cars but less amount of buses and train facility. Cost is also very high when compared to India.

Then 1 thing I feel is a big stupidity what we do is that, just for the sake of the glamour , pride and money, why should we leave our parents and our motherland and stay in a place where we are just considered as an alien?? Isn't it better to be a king in your den than be a slave in the palace??BE A HERO IN YOUR COUNTRY DUDE... If you have real talent then we can win where we are.

Cost of living in abroad is very high that we can't enjoy but just show in front of others that we are living in abroad with pride. My life in Australia was so horrible in Australia that even if I had met with fatality, everyone there expect me to choose a graveyard and lay myself. People living there were so practical that we can't expect even a single help from anyone. In my life except people like Senthil, Suresh, Naresh, Connie and some more, all others around me were very selfish and very practical.

In my life I was very helping person and would do anything to anyone if they cry or talk sympathetically. But that attitude in me changed after I was there in Australia. Once my girl friend betrayed me. But I could forgive her as she had a point in doing that. But this person who really killed me in such a manner that now if someone asks me help, I use to think twice before I do that. Here I have to thank my friend senthil who quoted me with a beautiful line

"IF YOU ARE SHOWING YOUR AFFECTION TO SOMEONE OR IF YOU ARE PLANNING TO BECOME A SAVIOUR FOR SOMEONE, JUST THINK WHETHER HE IS REALLY WORTH FOR YOUR AFFECTION". That's the mistake which I did in my life. Even due to that person, my studies also affected to a large extent. Now Media and newspapers are quoting that Australia is not a safe land for studying due to racism attack on Indian's... But I personally thank media and God almighty for making situation worse in Australia because I took it as an excuse and didn't go back to Australia because mentally I was not ready to go back there. And secondly I was dripping myself in my studies also. I personally felt many time to commit sucide and make my life an end but It was just due to some friends whom I quoted above and above all Senthil due to whom I am still alive.

Not only that, just because of that idiot only after coming to India, I became a part of this company and now here I am, One among the top head in NORTH TECHNOPROJECTS INDIA PVT LTD which happened off course due to my dad's influence. Some points which he have told to me and neglected it when I was there, now I following it and I could see the difference. Before I use to talk to mom daily even when I was in Australia but now I don't get time to talk to her once in a week also. Use to balance both entertainment part and professional part like he does. I feel better now.

I know for now my company is small but in future I will develop it and within 2020, I will make this a big MNC company and try capturing global market. If i could reach up to my expectation and reach such hype, I have to thank my dad, my friend Senthil for giving me ideas and even the person who betrayed me because now I use to think twice before I help and never try to become saviour for everyone.


"SOME SAD STORIES HAVE A HAPPY BEGINNING"

So friends try being a king in your den and make it a palace, rather than being a slave in others palace... This is my personal view. Opinion differs. Sorry If i had hurted any one's feelings...

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Don't write a blog like this!!!!!!!!

Never give a open comment about the place and people where you hardly spent any months.

VIJAY RAMANATHAN said...

To know the truth about a person or a place, its not important for me to be in a place for years...Just a year or months is enough. Secondly Blog is mine

Anyway thanks for your comments senthil