AM I A PERFECT SON???

Today since Saturday, i was spending my day in a routine manner. Suddenly My chat friend came online. Had a chat with that person for nearly 2 hours. At the end of the chat, as usual she got angry on me and went away but I on other hand understood what is the meaning of life. I started feeling doubtful whether am i a perfect son?? Got answer from my conscience that I am not a perfect son.

First when I was talking to her, I asked about her whereabouts, interests etc and then asked her a regular question which all guys ask to a girl that does she have any affair. But she said she doesn't have any affair and may be planning to get married soon as per her parents wish. Then I asked her why doesn't she go for a job and asked her was she happy with this kind of life what she was having now. She told me that she was used to it. Again I tried myself to provoke her to make her go for a job. Even threw up my dignity and spoke to her in a dusty manner. My intention was that before our chat session ends, I have to change her mind in such a manner that she have to go and fight with her parents to let her go to the job very next day. But In return I was being backfired when she told me 1 sentence and it also made me literally stand up and salute her.

"I LOVE MY DADDY. HE HAS DONE MANY THINGS FOR ME. BUT IN THIS ISSUE HE TOLD ME STRICTLY NOT TO GO FOR A JOB AND I OBEYED FOR HIM. I NEVER FEEL REGRETTED FOR THAT AS I LIKE MY DADDY..."

After hearing this words, I was really depressed and confused thinking whether she is a girl or angel? I have seen many girls in Australia who come from India in a traditional manner but after some days change off themselves as uncultured barbarians. Had a feel that all girls are like that. But really happy to see such a person in my life.

A girl who is 1 year younger than me literally slapped me on my face and taught me how to be a good child. I had been considering myself to be the best till now in all aspect but now I feel I am not. She is the best barring some of her character.

When I was doing my 10th I never studied properly and due to me my dad was degraded by our teachers. During my 11th std my parents thought I would have been changed but I didn't. I was still a spoiled brat. Now I feel because of me only my dad had Angioplasty operation. I agree that I changed myself and was a academic topper during my college days. But till then my dad had an angioplasty. Am i a good son?

When I had my affair, my mom told me that she was not a good girl. But I assumed that my mom didn't like my girlfriend just she was handicapped. Many days i have insulted my mom for her welfare. I think may be due to that only God would have punished me in such a manner that I was made to see my death rituals done by my girlfriend in front of me. Later she agreed she did all this because she got someone better than me. Latest what I heard was that her boyfriend had betrayed her. I would have gone to her to help her but I know then my role will be a saviour in front of her which I don't like. After that I knew my mom didn't like me going to Australia but I went due to my personal interest. Here I leaned 1 lesson

NOTHING IN OUR LIFE WILL BE PROPER IF WE DO IT WITHOUT OUR PARENTS INTEREST

My only aim is that I should bring up this company to a hype which even my dad couldn't do. Also after a year or 2 if i could be a good son for my father like the one whom I met today on chat, then I would consider myself to be lucky and a complete person.

Really I am thankful to that chat friend as she was the one who made me analyze what actually I was. Though I am a director of a prestigious company in Kolkata, but I behave as an irritating duffer in front of that person. Even she scold me that I was born in dustbin and I am most irritating and ruthless person ever met. Even she blackmailed me that If I write anything about her in future, she won't talk to me and show the chat script to all my friends. But just imagine how can't I write about a girl like this who is a rare specimen in our present generation. Basically now a days, a girl like this is hard to see and even her parents should be proud about her though she is bit hyper-tension and highly short tempered always. And I pray she should get someone who can keep her happy till her end. I don't care if she insults me as I will consider it as a fees for the moral which she taught me today and the moral is that

"AT TIMES WE HAVE TO SACRIFICE OUR HAPPINESS FOR OUR PARENTS AND OUR FAMILY"....