IMPORTANCE

When I was doing my 1st standard, I was in Gujarat/ I was and even now I am a great fan of Mr. Amitabh bachchan. Due to my request, my parents took me to a movie named HUM staring Big B, Rajinikanth and Govinda. But the day when we went for that movie, we were unable to get the ticket as the tickets were sold out. I cried for a whole day and next day bunked my class and went to that movie with my parents. Because that time I had given importance to that movie. But today when I was tired of my work schedule and was trying to relax myself, I opened my cupboard to watch some classics. I took this movie cd and started playing it in my laptop. Within 5 minutes, I stopped the movie as I got a call from my client as he wanted to meet me regarding the latest project. So since I am dedicated to my work, I feel this to be more important than anything else in the world. Person is same but his importance makes a change with his age,priorities and maturity. That time I gave priority to that movie because I didn't have much complications in my life. But now I do have responsibilities. My family is dependent on me.

Similarly many people today run behind money, fame and cheap gimmicks but they don't really understand that all this are not constant for a persons life. I am also a business man now and I do run behind money. But I am just doing my responsibility as a son. Next year by January or February I would be working for some software company and would give up this entrepreneur role. Because now our company is doing reasonably well with project up to 2012. I feel hereafter my dad's stability is more important for us to flourish than my aggressiveness. So after 5 months my importance in my life has been changed. This is what life is all about.

"What is common in a person's life is change"."

Expect love care and emotions, all other things in a person's life will just worth a backseat. Today if I get a true friend or a true well-wisher my affection or my importance for him would never change. In a person's name fame wealth and even the value for his success would change according to his situation and circumstances. Only thing which would never change with the person's age and circumstance is the value which he gives on love, emotions and feelings.

Even if a person to whom you are emotionally attached cheats you, don't think it was your fault that you believed him, just its his bad luck that he lost such a good person from his life.

TO BE A WINNER IN THE EYES OF GOD, AT TIMES WE HAVE TO BE A LOSER IN FRONT OF HUMAN BEINGS

AM I A PERFECT SON???

Today since Saturday, i was spending my day in a routine manner. Suddenly My chat friend came online. Had a chat with that person for nearly 2 hours. At the end of the chat, as usual she got angry on me and went away but I on other hand understood what is the meaning of life. I started feeling doubtful whether am i a perfect son?? Got answer from my conscience that I am not a perfect son.

First when I was talking to her, I asked about her whereabouts, interests etc and then asked her a regular question which all guys ask to a girl that does she have any affair. But she said she doesn't have any affair and may be planning to get married soon as per her parents wish. Then I asked her why doesn't she go for a job and asked her was she happy with this kind of life what she was having now. She told me that she was used to it. Again I tried myself to provoke her to make her go for a job. Even threw up my dignity and spoke to her in a dusty manner. My intention was that before our chat session ends, I have to change her mind in such a manner that she have to go and fight with her parents to let her go to the job very next day. But In return I was being backfired when she told me 1 sentence and it also made me literally stand up and salute her.

"I LOVE MY DADDY. HE HAS DONE MANY THINGS FOR ME. BUT IN THIS ISSUE HE TOLD ME STRICTLY NOT TO GO FOR A JOB AND I OBEYED FOR HIM. I NEVER FEEL REGRETTED FOR THAT AS I LIKE MY DADDY..."

After hearing this words, I was really depressed and confused thinking whether she is a girl or angel? I have seen many girls in Australia who come from India in a traditional manner but after some days change off themselves as uncultured barbarians. Had a feel that all girls are like that. But really happy to see such a person in my life.

A girl who is 1 year younger than me literally slapped me on my face and taught me how to be a good child. I had been considering myself to be the best till now in all aspect but now I feel I am not. She is the best barring some of her character.

When I was doing my 10th I never studied properly and due to me my dad was degraded by our teachers. During my 11th std my parents thought I would have been changed but I didn't. I was still a spoiled brat. Now I feel because of me only my dad had Angioplasty operation. I agree that I changed myself and was a academic topper during my college days. But till then my dad had an angioplasty. Am i a good son?

When I had my affair, my mom told me that she was not a good girl. But I assumed that my mom didn't like my girlfriend just she was handicapped. Many days i have insulted my mom for her welfare. I think may be due to that only God would have punished me in such a manner that I was made to see my death rituals done by my girlfriend in front of me. Later she agreed she did all this because she got someone better than me. Latest what I heard was that her boyfriend had betrayed her. I would have gone to her to help her but I know then my role will be a saviour in front of her which I don't like. After that I knew my mom didn't like me going to Australia but I went due to my personal interest. Here I leaned 1 lesson

NOTHING IN OUR LIFE WILL BE PROPER IF WE DO IT WITHOUT OUR PARENTS INTEREST

My only aim is that I should bring up this company to a hype which even my dad couldn't do. Also after a year or 2 if i could be a good son for my father like the one whom I met today on chat, then I would consider myself to be lucky and a complete person.

Really I am thankful to that chat friend as she was the one who made me analyze what actually I was. Though I am a director of a prestigious company in Kolkata, but I behave as an irritating duffer in front of that person. Even she scold me that I was born in dustbin and I am most irritating and ruthless person ever met. Even she blackmailed me that If I write anything about her in future, she won't talk to me and show the chat script to all my friends. But just imagine how can't I write about a girl like this who is a rare specimen in our present generation. Basically now a days, a girl like this is hard to see and even her parents should be proud about her though she is bit hyper-tension and highly short tempered always. And I pray she should get someone who can keep her happy till her end. I don't care if she insults me as I will consider it as a fees for the moral which she taught me today and the moral is that

"AT TIMES WE HAVE TO SACRIFICE OUR HAPPINESS FOR OUR PARENTS AND OUR FAMILY"....

SOME NEW FRIENDS IN MY LIFE

It had been a long time since I had a pen on my hand but what to do, I was bit held up with my work. Now back to the topic. Today I thought of writing some interesting characters whom I happened to meet in my life. ALL from kolkata and 1 from our Chennai whom I happened to meet through Orkut.

My friends in Kolkata:

Mr. SUKANTHO :

"A man without problems can be considered lucky but a man facing problems with a smile can be considered as god".

If this fact is right, then we can say he is a God. Because never in his life I have seen him sad. Always happy and an extremely friendly person whom I had met till date. But he is intellectual in his work. The way he tackles the issues is really cool to watch. His "loduka loduki" comedy has created a blast among us. More than this I can't reveal on this comedy as it is bit confidential. He may be skipping from our office from next month and I feel it would be a big loss for our organization professionally and personally.

Mr. AMRIT :

Highly professional in all aspect but I feel he is not getting proper chance to show his talent. But he also is not so bothered about that as he is very cool and considerate person. Very straight forward and does not involve in company politics.

Mr. DEBNATH :

Chocolate boy of our company. He had been qualified himself in water treatment plant and involve in hydro-power operations but this poor guy is being deputed to look after Boilers and Waste Heat Boilers and he finds it difficult to carry that load on his back. But his cool attitude and his "don't care" attitude makes him different from others. But his only problem is that he is a chain smoker and he never takes care of his health. I pray god that he should change that attitude of his.

That's it about friends from Kolkata. Though I like everyone in NTIL family, I consider this guys to be my friends as these are the guys with whom I had opportunity to share more time.

FRIEND FROM CHENNAI:

She is from Chennai. Got her from Orkut. Never had time or chance to meet her. Since she is a girl, I am not specifying her name. She was the first girl who appreciated me for publishing my songs on youtube. Here I should thanks our thulasi because from him only, I got a friend like her. She is very brave and very frank. More than that she is a crazy person ever seen. Her attitude changes in 1 minute. First she calls a person to be most irritating one and also howls at him and in a fraction of minute asks sorry to him. Once I criticized seeing her photo. In return she began bursting out in such a manner that there was no tomorrow. She even told that i am the most irritating person in this world. Then in a minute she asked sorry. Never met such a craziest person in my life. But what I liked in her is her frankness which I guess many lack now a days. Even without seeing my credibility she had guts to blast me. Such people wont be money minded and would blast guys even if he is BILL GATES. Hats off to her... This is the first time I am meeting such an interesting person in my life. It was said by a great man in his book

"SOME ACCIDENTS CREATES INCIDENT, AND SOME INCIDENT CREATE EXPERIENCE AND OUR LIFE IS NOTHING BUT A COMBINATION OF SUCH EXPERIENCE..."

I felt same happened to me after having an encounter with her. Anyway I wish all my friends luck for their future and also wish the same for those who read this blog. Wish me also the same....

With Love
Vijay

MY LIFE IN AUSTRALIA...

In my life, I had to spend some period 0f my life in AUSTRALIA. Australia was a place of pride, grandeur and charisma. I was really excited to go their. I felt it would be better if I settled in Australia and waved my hand and said goodbye to INDIA.

I got myself placed in University of Sydney, and did my P.G there. People who are interested to know about Sydney just click on

After going to Australia, I really understood what was the meaning of home sickness. Really It was a pain leaving our well-wishers and was a tear-jerking experience for me. Everyone their expelling some people, mostly all others were really selfish and had no care for others. I had some friends in Australia whom I really liked the most. Suresh, a real friend of mine and he was also from the same consultancy from where I applied for Australian education. He was of good help for me and was a true friend of mine. Next to him Connie, a cute Chineese girl.She was my team mate when we were doing projects. She had a pure eyes which spoke about her character and her innocent face. So cool and was very extrovert. Then came Naresh. He was also a cool chap from Chennai. He was also good friend of mine. All others were very selfish and I had a boring experience there.

Some girls from local kanamma pettai use to come to Australia for doing their higher education and It would be really comical to see their change. During their first week they behave as if they are very innocent. By second week they start to wear vulgar dress and by third week they would got an affair and would roam around with them. Then their selfish attitude play a vital part for their survival in Australia. Why I say this because, most girls who try to woo boys and make an affair just for their safety and security. But at once when they get set with that culture, they throw their boyfriend by finding mistakes on them. They make boys as their prey.
I am not prejudice with girls or women community because If i am in this world, Its because of my mom, who is a woman and many girls like my sister etc have played a vital role in my life but some facts cannot be untold and it would be injustice if i don't say this facts. Problem is that we are following our culture and tradition due to force and not due to choice.

Another thing which I didn't like in Australia is that city is lacking when it comes to mode of transportation. There are many cars but less amount of buses and train facility. Cost is also very high when compared to India.

Then 1 thing I feel is a big stupidity what we do is that, just for the sake of the glamour , pride and money, why should we leave our parents and our motherland and stay in a place where we are just considered as an alien?? Isn't it better to be a king in your den than be a slave in the palace??BE A HERO IN YOUR COUNTRY DUDE... If you have real talent then we can win where we are.

Cost of living in abroad is very high that we can't enjoy but just show in front of others that we are living in abroad with pride. My life in Australia was so horrible in Australia that even if I had met with fatality, everyone there expect me to choose a graveyard and lay myself. People living there were so practical that we can't expect even a single help from anyone. In my life except people like Senthil, Suresh, Naresh, Connie and some more, all others around me were very selfish and very practical.

In my life I was very helping person and would do anything to anyone if they cry or talk sympathetically. But that attitude in me changed after I was there in Australia. Once my girl friend betrayed me. But I could forgive her as she had a point in doing that. But this person who really killed me in such a manner that now if someone asks me help, I use to think twice before I do that. Here I have to thank my friend senthil who quoted me with a beautiful line

"IF YOU ARE SHOWING YOUR AFFECTION TO SOMEONE OR IF YOU ARE PLANNING TO BECOME A SAVIOUR FOR SOMEONE, JUST THINK WHETHER HE IS REALLY WORTH FOR YOUR AFFECTION". That's the mistake which I did in my life. Even due to that person, my studies also affected to a large extent. Now Media and newspapers are quoting that Australia is not a safe land for studying due to racism attack on Indian's... But I personally thank media and God almighty for making situation worse in Australia because I took it as an excuse and didn't go back to Australia because mentally I was not ready to go back there. And secondly I was dripping myself in my studies also. I personally felt many time to commit sucide and make my life an end but It was just due to some friends whom I quoted above and above all Senthil due to whom I am still alive.

Not only that, just because of that idiot only after coming to India, I became a part of this company and now here I am, One among the top head in NORTH TECHNOPROJECTS INDIA PVT LTD which happened off course due to my dad's influence. Some points which he have told to me and neglected it when I was there, now I following it and I could see the difference. Before I use to talk to mom daily even when I was in Australia but now I don't get time to talk to her once in a week also. Use to balance both entertainment part and professional part like he does. I feel better now.

I know for now my company is small but in future I will develop it and within 2020, I will make this a big MNC company and try capturing global market. If i could reach up to my expectation and reach such hype, I have to thank my dad, my friend Senthil for giving me ideas and even the person who betrayed me because now I use to think twice before I help and never try to become saviour for everyone.


"SOME SAD STORIES HAVE A HAPPY BEGINNING"

So friends try being a king in your den and make it a palace, rather than being a slave in others palace... This is my personal view. Opinion differs. Sorry If i had hurted any one's feelings...

HOW VIJAY SUCCEEDED IN MGR UNIVERSITY??

Many people in this world would say, behind every successful man, there is a women who supports him like hell till he reaches his goal. But in my life, behind my success in MGR UNIVERSITY I can see only 1 person who stood behind me like a wall. He is none other than VIGNESWARAN NAGULAN, My Vicky... I always need someone who can compete with me and motivate me to study well. He was a motivator for me, made me study well and even use to abuse me and criticize me if i do go in a wrong path.. Without of his support, Vijay would have been a real duffer which he was in his school time.

In addition to that he was the only person to whom I have asked sorry if I did any mistake. Even at times I use to think that he was a selfish person. Because when he had an affair, he wanted me to support him but when I was sailing in the same boat, he would never support me nor encourage me. But last time when I met him, I told about my affair. He kept his lip tight. I asked him why now he was not discouraging me?? That time he told me that, now he considered me matured enough to take decisions on my own. Till then i thought he was selfish person but it was only that time I understood he was more possessive, caring and was very protective on me.

We had many good moments in our life and also some bad moments. But when i think of him, never i could remember about bad things or bad moments that took place in our relation. Even at the bottom of his heart, he would be having some grievance on me and even do i had the same on him, but at the end of the day if someone ask me whom do u like the most next to your to parents and your relatives, I would surely point my finger towards him. He is not just my friend, he is my younger brother,at times
a saviour and a ladder which made me to a successful person in my life.

"""I am really thankful to him and my gratitude towards him will never subside"""

Thanks da machchi

In what way my blogs would be useful for my friends???

When I was doing my higher secondary education I had 2 close friends.. Mr C.Vijay and Mr.Thulasi Ram. We 3 were considered to be dull-headed students and our teachers were very sure that we would never be able to complete our 10th and 12th... But after 6 years I was able to meet C.Vijay who is now in Dubai, working and earning a lot than the first rank students who had been with us in our school days... Thulasi is working in a private firm(marketing field) and he also got settled in life.. I completed my B.Tech degree and now I am in Kolkatta as an I.T developer and also taking care of the marketing sector.. People close to me would be knowing what I am for my company. So thereby I dedicate our success to all those insulted and degraded us because as said in a movie which i felt appealing to be quoted here

"GOOD LIVING IS A BEST REVENGE"

So our life is an example and motivation for those who are facing hurdles, downfalls and tear-jerking periods in life. Always remember 1 thing

If there is a sunset, there is always a sunrise.. Nothing is permanent in life

If a duffer like Vijay Ramanathan could reach to this level, I am sure anyone can rock this world and reach the top...

Wishing You All Success
Vijay Ramanathan

Why did i open a blog page??????

Many people may think that why i had opened a blog.. Am i Mr. Amitabh Bachchan or any famous personality to do so... To be frank, I feel i am the most apt person to open a blog. Because in my 25 years of life experience, I have seen many brutal and disgusting things which i feel no one in this world would have seen.. What i am won't be discussed nor disclosed in my blog but what i was in previous and what all things changed my life will be discussed in this blog... And in addition to that you will be able to see my photographs, videos and also interesting facts in my life will be discussed here..

Social issues,political issues and even educational issues will be discussed in future if my blog reaches the hype as expected..Rest is on my friends to make my blog a huge success...

With Love
Vijay

anjale song from vijay

illaya nila from vijay

my first youtube video....